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What actually makes people trust you?
It’s not your campaign budget—it’s your willingness to be real.

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Want to know a secret? Perfect cities don't exist. (Shocking, I know.) But here's the thing: your residents don't actually want perfection. They want honesty, humanity, and yes—even humor.
Real Connection > Perfect Messaging
On the latest episode of the Oh, hi! Stories podcast, I sat down with Kristy Dalton, founder of Government Social Media, to talk about what actually builds trust between governments and the people they serve.
Spoiler: it’s not perfectly polished press releases.

One of my favorite moments? When Kristy told the story of a very crooked Christmas tree that the City of Reno shared on social media. Instead of backlash, the post drew laughter, warmth, and—most importantly—connection.
“It was a moment of realness, which I think we struggle to find, especially when government communicates... Government isn't an exception to how the world works and how we communicate.” — Dana Berchman from the Oh, hi! Stories podcast
That moment didn’t go viral because it was perfect. It worked because it was human.
Engage Before the Crisis Hits
I learned this firsthand in Gilbert, Arizona: When we engaged residents consistently during "blue sky" times, they trusted us when emergencies arose.
“You build community connections in peaceful times so they're strong when crises hit.”
Let's end the myth right now: managing your city's digital presence isn't just "sitting on Twitter." It's tough, strategic, 24/7 work. If you don't respect it as skilled labor, your residents won't respect your message.

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Thanks for reading,
— Dana
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